My 2 cents...

Poor Sandra Bullock, I can't help but give my opinion on this matter. Granted it's no surprise that this happened in yet another "Hollywood marriage", but can they maybe learn from Tiger in this situation? I have to say, even though he created quite a story or two, the way him and his wife have handled it should be a good example for any couple going through the same thing. It's not easy, but it is possible to save a marriage after infidelity. Though painful, dealing with infidelity is a LOT easier than going through a divorce. Wouldn't want to handle both! It's obvious that this "mistress", if she is truly the actual one involved, is after publicity and attention. Shame on her, but I guess if she actually respected his marriage and children she wouldn't have gotten involved in the first place.
Good for Jesse James for immediately canceling his social networking sites, and, (already) making a public apology. In that way maybe Tiger is rubbing off. I pray for them, because it appears that they had a fairly normal existence, and because there is children involved. Everyone hurts in an affair and a divorce. The ripples are far and deep. Jesse should clean up his act, and they both should try to save what they started. Sandra should know that it has nothing to do with her/not her fault, and Jesse should try to get help if he has addiction issues.
I'm a big believer in therapy, faith, love and respect in marriage. Those three key things could fix what's broken and make it better than ever! I wish them the best!

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